Labeling Bookworms
Hey guys!
Today I am bringing you a slightly
different post to what we are used to have. It´s not a
book review or a wrap up or a book haul. For that matter is none of the above
and it´s not related to books even
when it´s.
Ever since I was a little girl, I
have like stories so I would ask my mum to read them to me before bed time, and
during lunch time, and even maybe during nap time. Eventually my mum got tired
of me so when in school they were teaching us how to read I learned faster than
the rest of my classmates so I could read my stories. Yeah guys, true story.
While for the rest of my classmates took a whole school year to learn how to
read I did it in a couple of month.
After that a book buying problem
started. Tales were cool, and I wanted them all. My parents were pleased and as
both my grandmas were avid readers, they understood my wanting to read, so more
books came from that side. And don´t you
guys go thinking I forget about my Godfather, he has always been giving me
books.
But my reading history it´s not the point of this post. It´s related but no.
You know that often little kids
don’t like to read, and that was the case
for all of the kids around me. They didn’t like
to read so whenever I said: “I like
to read” I got looks that basically
were telling me that I was insane and I weirdo.
Growing up that did not change.
People around me doesn’t like
to read. Often, they don’t
understand my investment with a story or with the characters. Whenever I say I
like to read fantasy I got looks that were similar to those that I get whenever
I said I liked to read. And whenever I said I like to read syfy I get the comment:
“So you are one of those nerds”. The latest comment has also been
done to me whenever I say I have a blog about literature.
So, I want to make things clear. First, being
a nerd is completely fine. I don’t know
if I am but, if you look at me you won’t get
that vibe. I don’t look like the image people
have of nerds. Actually, they label me as a nerd but they do it in surprised.
Clichés are very believed, so apparently
nerds have to be some sort of antisocial being, wearing Star Wars/Star Trek
T-shirts, that play video-games and read weird stuff. I am do not fit in that
description. I am a very sociable person and I have lots of friends. I like to
dress in what I consider to be a fashionable way, and I do not like to play
video-games.
Second, and this is the most
annoying part, at least to me. Because I like to read certain type of books
does not mean that I don’t have
a social life that is not cool or that you can label me as anything. Seriously
guys do I label, for instance, those watching football as “those morons watching 11 guys in
underwear kicking a ball”? Do I
label, those people who go to wine tastes as “people
that only drink wine”? Do I label
those who like to go to clubs as “brainless
people who listen to shitty music”? No, I
don’t, even when I do not like their
hobbies. I respect all of those, so why don’t
people respect my hobby as I respect their own.
I could go on and on about the “respect” thing,
but it will be a post way to long, and I am sure most of you will stop reading
after a couple of paragraphs. My point is that you can have whatever hobby you
like and you should not be label as anything just because of it.
I like to read YA, fantasy, syfy,
sometimes a good romance, and because of that I am not stupid a nerd or any
other offensive label you can think of. And because I like to talk in the
internet about my hobby you don’t have
the right to look at me like I am some short of fair monkey or whatever.
I read, because I like to
discover new stories. I review because I like to share my love for those books
so more people can discover those amazing worlds that make me feel something.
If you have reach this far in the
post: congratulations! I was not sure if anyone will read it til the end. But I
am glad you did it. I will like to ask you for two things: please do not label
people in offensive ways; and, leave me your opinion so I know what are your
thoughts on the topic.
See you all next Monday.
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